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050 0 0 _aBV4597.53.C58
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100 1 _aCloud, Henry.
_928083
245 1 0 _aBoundaries face to face :
_bhow to have that difficult conversation you've been avoiding /
_cHenry Cloud and John Townsend.
260 _aGrand Rapids, Mich. :
_bZondervan,
_cc2003.
300 _a266 p. ;
_c24 cm.
505 0 _aPart I. Why you need to have that difficult conversation -- The conversation can change your life -- The benefits of a good conversation -- Part II. The essentials of a good conversation -- Be emotionally present -- Be clear about "you" and "I" -- Clarify the problem -- Balance grace and truth -- Stay on task -- Use the formula, when you do "a," I feel "b" -- Affirm and validate -- Apologize for your part in the problem -- Avoid "shoulds" -- Be an agent for change -- Be specific -- Differentiate between forgiving and trusting -- Part III. Seeing how it's done -- Telling people what you want -- Making someone aware of something -- Stopping a behavior -- Dealing with counterattack and other problems -- Part IV. Getting ready to have the conversation -- Why you need to get ready -- How to get ready -- Part V. Having the conversation with people in your life -- With your spouse -- With someone you're dating -- With your kids -- With your parents -- With your adult children -- At work -- With people in authority.
650 0 _aConflict management
_xReligious aspects
_xChristianity.
650 0 _aConversation
_xReligious aspects
_xChristianity.
650 0 _aInterpersonal conflict
_xReligious aspects
_xChristianity.
700 1 _aTownsend, John Sims,
_d1952-
_928087
856 4 1 _3Table of contents only
_uhttp://www.loc.gov/catdir/toc/ecip046/2003015623.html
856 4 2 _3Publisher description
_uhttp://www.loc.gov/catdir/enhancements/fy0633/2003015623-d.html
856 4 1 _3Sample text
_uhttp://www.loc.gov/catdir/enhancements/fy0625/2003015623-s.html
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